Tagged: personal

They say you shouldn’t judge a book by its cover, BUT…

Time to choose the best book cover for Dulcinea and The Death Code! Number #1 or #2?  “Aspiring authors, get this through your head. Cover art serves one purpose, and one purpose only, to get potential customers interested long enough to pick up the book to read the back cover blurb. In the internet age that means the thumb nail image needs to be interesting enough to click on. That’s...

A couple of words about blogging…

No, this is not the usual post with 1,2,3-advices or how you have to ‘integrate’ with people to become a better blogger. But you have to. 1. The most important thing about blogging – To Have Fun. If you doesn’t have fun – just fkn drop it for a week, or two, or month… What it feels like?  As some of you know, I have started blogging in December 2016. In...

The greatest obstacle to “Happy You”

“Mind is a flexible mirror, adjust it, to see a better world.” Amit Ray, Living in the moment – Living in the breath We all know the phrase “you are not your mind”, but we don’t understand (not fully!) what does it mean. I’m reading the book “The Power Of Now”, written by Eckhart Tolle, and I’d like to say there’re a lot of great thoughts there, even if I’m...

How to cultivate a healthy state of mind

My voice is my most sacred power. I use it only to express my inner truth. “The Path Of Practice”  You can’t expect life to be 100% obstacle-free, simply because you are cultivating positivity or walking around with “a ray of sunshine”-face. Indeed sadness, frustration, anger and stress are often natural responses to the ordinary struggles of human life. So what you can do? 1. Take in positive impressions. This can...

Why don’t we like to talk about sex?

Based on the article of Glenn McDonald, ‘Science’ magazine Let’s start with some numbers. According to the government’s most recent major survey of sexual behaviour in USA: 94% of women and 92% of men ( ages 18-44) have engaged in heterosexual intercourse in their lives; 87% (both genders) have engaged in oral sex; 17% of women and 6% of men reported same-sex contact in their lifetimes. Thats A LOT of...

“No,” I said to the last biscuit… 

If you want a puzzling, stimulating, provocative, gripping, fascinating, in one word – interesting book; if you love eating, cooking, traveling, Miss Marple and mysterious crime-stories; if you would like to know how it feels to live in a mud-brick house on a nature reserve in the Klein Karoo (South Africa); if you are looking for the love-advice or a perfect plan for the murder – you have to read...