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Kinda the girl I am…

“Isn’t it strange that in order to be happy we have to ignore all the sadness in the world at that moment? Isn’t it strange that in order to be happy we have to unremember a lot of what we already know?”
Kamand Kojouri

Because I’m lazy I’m going to write this quick post. I think the next will be the story… have an idea, but don’t feel like writing it yet 🙂 

1. I think I’m fortunate. I feel fortunate because I have what I have.
These things may not make someone else feel fortunate, though… But I’m happy with what I have.

People will have different answers to this question – “Do you feel fortunate?” based on life experiences, spirituality and mindset. One person might feel fortunate just to have a roof over their head, food on their plate and shoes on their feet. The next person might feel fortunate only after dropping a couple million dollars on a new yacht. The determination of ‘fortune’ is in the eye of the beholder.

2. I’m often reading 30 % of the text. I call it 30-70 rule. I can listen sometimes only 30 % of the conversation too. Some books I’m reading with 30 % rule, but if I really like the book or think it is something different or it touched my heart some way – I read all 100 🙂

3. My fav song “Stand by me”, my fav movie “Gone with the wind” (I simply love Rhett Butler)

4. I’ve been married 3 times: 1-1-10 (in years)

5. We all know: “Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.” But yeah, I’m probably judging you. At least in my head. Haha 

6. My drinking limit – 2 glasses. 

7. I’m a city-girl. I can’t swim, I can’t use bicycle, I can’t play any musical instrument, I can’t drive. I know nothing about cars, and honestly…they all looks similar to me. I do not like speed, I don’t like cola and ice-cream. I never have ice cream at home. I do eat it when travelling tho. 

8. My fam is kinda small. Relatives from my side: only my mum + my aunt (her sister) + her son (my cousin) + my grandmother = 4 pers.
I do have more relatives and even half sister from my fathers side. But I never met my half sister. I met my 2 girls-cousins tho, mostly in my child-teens age. I never seen them after 13-14 yo.

9. When first time I’ve travelled alone – I was 11 years old.  I’ve travelled Russia by train (from the place I lived with my mum to the place my father and grandmother/grandfather lived) – it took 32 hrs. 

10. I don’t like/understand big tennis. Honestly…I don’t know the rules and don’t understand what they are doing outta there, those 2 players, during almost 4 hrs. It’s madness!
I do love watch sports: mostly basketball, football, hockey, winter-sports (any group-sports) etc. 

11. Not a big fan of the sauna. In general: swimming, water, bathing…is not my thing haha

12. I wanted to be librarian or journalist. But my mum never allowed me. Simply because it doesn’t work in my family: “be yourself or do what you love”-rule. The college was in another city and my mum was always scared of the bad influence lol so I’ve studied in the local college (i lived in the small town then) – to become a teacher.

13. I never envy. The grass is never greener…
“For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder…” James 3:16

“A tranquil heart gives life to the flesh, but envy makes the bones rot.” Proverbs 14:30

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Living in Sweden/Born in USSR. Happy. Ayurvedic food. Healthy lifestyle. Dogs. Literature. Painting. Meditation/Yoga. I love my life.
"It does not matter how long you are spending on the earth, how much money you have gathered or how much attention you have received. It is the amount of positive vibration you have radiated in life that matters" A. Ray

22 replies

  1. Oh when the night has come and the land is dark…and the moon is the only light well see. ~ Amen


  2. You really no how to fill ones afternoon with inner inspection! Great your favorite song!
    Fortunate in so many ways, one of those is being here with YOU!
    Nice when a piece is written that grabs you, and does not want to let go!
    Kind of an after thought on fortunate, those without clean water to drink, maybe no shelter from weather, eating weeds, bark and softened twigs, they too can feel fortunate they are alive and that progress is coming their way! ( I don’t know where this thought really came from! )

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    1. About fortunate I meant…so many ppl ‘crying hearts’ out how unhappy, unlucky, unfortunate they are…but what I’m trying to say: look around, maybe you are very fortunate to be here :))

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      1. I always think ok they will get it together. But when he is willing Scarlet is being hardheaded and when she is will he is hardheaded. I know how it is going to turn out. I’ve watched it a 100 times but I always am rooting for them to be together.

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      2. Yes there’re mini-series also with Timothy Dalton as Rhett, from 1994…also great 👍
        I love Rhett-character. You kinda just know it – he loves Scarlett no matter what..& btw, they r very similar:) Scarlett just doesn’t see it at once.

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      3. LOL no she was very use to having her way and although he usually let her have her way, he also let her know he was letting her have her way, 😉 not like the everybody else in her life that just jumped when she commanded lol

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      4. he’s romantic in the manly way. Like bidding for scarlet at the dance even though she was a widow and shouldn’t dance. He knew she wanted to so he did that. A rough and rugged man like him isn’t going to write you a poem or sing you a love ballad. He’s going to buy her all the nicest carraiages, and dresses to make her friends jealous. He’s going to buy her a colourful hat, even though she shouldn’t have it because he knew she wanted it. That’s how men like Rhett show you romance 😉 lol

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      5. Yep. Rhett is d man. I never been into “love-ballads”, I grew up in the “rough” environment where ppl don’t tell “love u” each sec. actually- almost never.
        Idk..I’m very similar to Rhett..that’s why I liked him


    1. Yes, but I’m writing them all down(ideas)…and with time, slowly haha, I’ll write all the stories 🙂 oh, summer will be a difficult time to write
      It’s much easier with 30-rule haha

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