To be happy again…and again…and again 🙂
1. Someone said: “Chains do not hold a marriage together.” So what does? Love? Compability? Kids? Money?
2. A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers. Are we ready for that?
3. What counts in making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are, but how you deal with incompatibility. Leo Tolstoy
Oh. Go away, Leo…that’s too much. I could deal maybe, hm..as far as I know no man was ever shot by his wife while doing the dishes. Haha
What is it about the end of my marriage that has troubled me so deeply?
I did enjoy the company, the intimacy, and the sheer thrill of having an attractive spouse. I loved the idea of what we had built together. And more than anything, I enjoyed the thought of having someone to share my life with and growing old together.
But as time has gone by, another thought has slowly gripped me.
Was I happy in my marriage? Were we right for one another? What was my marriage really doing for me?
I think the answer to the first two question is a no. The third one is a lot more complex to answer. I am afraid of being lonely, but is that a good reason to stay married? I sacrificed a lot for my wife, but was that love? I was cared for, a house kept beautifully, awesome food…
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Living in Sweden/Born in USSR. Happy. Ayurvedic food. Healthy lifestyle. Dogs. Literature. Painting. Meditation/Yoga. I love my life.
"It does not matter how long you are spending on the earth, how much money you have gathered or how much attention you have received. It is the amount of positive vibration you have radiated in life that matters" A. Ray