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The meaning of life! Jaha!!

1. There’re NO extra calories in those 200
2. You are stupid. Yes. But it’s normal. Nothing to worry about…
3. My mum says: “a woman always survive on her own. Man? That’s a big question.”
4. Happiness is never “out”, but “in-side” 🙂
5. Food? Go to Sicily. Or Greece. Or Crete. Swedes can’t cook. Worst pizza ever is here lol
6. Without faith – no life.
7. Mind-Blowing Sex? Mmm, not when you are 36 yo and up. Maybe after 36years of celibate…
8. Do you Want to be a Mother? If yes – then the answer is yes.
9. Parents loves us. But I’ve met many who doesn’t care to love because simply they don’t know what love is and they doesn’t love themselves.
10. Depression is real only if you see it as real.
11. Lost in a person? Only if you still wanna be depressed and count calories.
12. God is Everything. God isn’t a dude on the sky tho. God is just a “name” for the life around us.
13. There’s No Hell.
14. Humanity is alive. It is still in balance. You are a part of it.
15. You can perfectly function in society. We all want to ‘punch’, but love, kindness and understanding always wins…

Faces of Life

I am pretty sure I moved on from last month’s depression. No one came out victorious though…. The being that I call depression with its stupid grin and which is as black as coal got bored and left… (ya, I am not gonna call ‘boring depression away’ a win). The reason why I say I bored it, is because I have gotten stuck on other issues. See, the being called depression might be strong but it is also really fucking stupid. So when I started philosophizing (well there’s a fancy word… ) about the deeper meaning of life, and all the being of depression had to throw at me was ‘die, die, die’, it realized it couldn’t keep up with the conversation…. So it got bored and left. But alas, I fear it might just be out to buy some books and will be back shortly with new arsenal. It will up…

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raynotbradbury

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  1. Just my humble opinion stated here! One of you should condense this and make it a blog post. Both are so serious, sooooooooo funny, truly enlightening. At this point I wish I were a ‘female’ simply to fit in! So much fun to read! 🙂 Then again, I really would not want to be a female just to fit in! Me, as I am, having felt some of the very same feelings, having been offered ‘insight’ by the very same person!
    Thank you both for this!

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    1. It’s a spring..we don’t have time for too many and too long posts. 8 hrs for sleep u know, Kinky :)) 24-8 = zero
      I’m serious when I’m talking about food. Men are eaters they don’t talk about food as we do. They talk cars & sex.
      Glad u had fun while reading comments haha

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      1. Yea right!
        I have to disagree about men not talking and participating in food discussions!
        Maybe, more like surly not as many as Women! Cars and sex will not fill the stomach by themselves! Cars, boats, planes, golf, tennis “roller skating” and sex, all take energy! Personally, I have enjoyed the ‘food’ talk!. To be able to ‘carry’ on both mentally and physically is a prime concern. My mind at this point is like a sponge, soaking up all the valuable information you provide us!
        Whoops, time for a cinnamon roll! Your chocolate cake, my cinnamon roll! Having a 70% chocolate bar late!

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      2. Not sure what is more dangerous to our health: cinnamon roll or chocolate cake? Hm…I’ll go ask Luke haha
        btw, I don’t eat cakes now, sticking to dark chocolate only!
        Yeah some men love food chats, but it’s very seldom – 10% from 100 maybe :)) busy with cars & sex haha too tired to talk *wink* :))

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  2. Thank you for taking the time to answer some of my questions Ray 🙂 I laughed when you called me stupid because I am just simply going to assume you were joking… hehe :J
    You are so right about the Swedes… they can not cook. But number 7….. ?? Truly disappointing so I am just simply not going to agree…
    Your answer to 8 was so pure and simple. I really liked that one…. And yes, I do think my mother loves me… but I wonder if she will ever be able to show it. Ever.
    I have always been taught that God is a dude in the sky….. I have truly believed that for many years. I was told I could go to hell for doing bad things and not listening….. its very interesting to see other views on all of this…..

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    1. Of course you ain’t stupid. When I’m saying “stupid” I doesn’t mean u having or showing a lack of intelligence or common sense. But ain’t we all a bit “stupid”, compared to the Earth-force, nature, etc? :))

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    2. About number 7. Why “mind-blowing” sex? What is “mind-blowing”?
      Mmmm, but now when I think about it – I’d like to have mind-blowing hug maybe.. but nothing more. I want my mind in d place it belongs..✌️😁

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      1. Haha a mind-blowing hug?? So what I mean with mind-blowing sex is the kind of sex that leaves you wanting for more… filled with passion and love and kindness and touch…. It must be out there, no?

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    3. Swedish ppl r really horrible with food…they have lots of possibilities but still wanna their brown sauce with mushed potato from ‘the bag’ (no need in real cooking, just add water) lol & steak (or korv)

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      1. Noooooo….you should cook for yourself. Yes, sometimes it’s kinda boring & you think you don’t need much, but it’s cool with a new dishes. what about soups? It’s very nourishing and u can eat it couple of days and yummy!!!:))

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      2. I have committed myself to eating breakfast every day! Tunnbröd 🙂 Very Swedish. And I should find someone that can cook for me so I dont have to….

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      3. Tunnbröd with what? I never eat it for breakfast. Egg whites + avocado, banana protein smoothie + fruit, or oatmeal with berries. My usual three. Plus coffee or tea. Sometimes dark chocolate. Usually 350-450 cal. I have to bake a bread from that South African book I read…mmm, hopefully this weekend lol I don’t like to bake…takes too long time 🙂 u? Baker?

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      4. Nooo, no baker. I pretended once but it leaves such a mess… I dont understand when you can buy stuff in the store, why go through all that trouble and mess and dishes?? I eat tunnbröd with cottage cheese 🙂

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      5. Bcz to cook from scratch is very healthy for ur body & more fresh & also yummy. To buy food – more chemicals in it. Also it often smells & tastes differently. At least for me so, I grew up eating at home.
        About tunnbröd & cottage cheese..mmm it’s ok but hopefully not each day.
        I’m eating cottage cheese also, but whole box! Haha I mix with kiwi & bananas & nuts & cardamom and cinnamon and honey/ or maple syrup. And eat it + tea. Noms

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      6. I don’t know. Only if you’ll pay them – then they’ll cook. Nobody doing anything for free nowadays.
        Mom is always a solution :))
        Nope, I prefer to cook myself. Otherwise I’ll die…my mum & me eating very differently. I’m eating lots of veggies & my mum hates them :)) I’m going to be a fat ass with her cooking haha

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      7. That’s not a breakfast…you shouldn’t count calories at all. It’s strange u does :/ hm.. calories counting only for those like me who’s eating over 2000 -2500 a day haha

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      8. Not allowing? That’s weird… whats the reason?
        Don’t tell me about calories again otherwise I’ll think something is wrong with you :)) aaaaa!!!😂😂
        I mean a breakfast under 200 cal is already wrong. 😕😧
        With your ‘eating’ you should buy a chocolate pack each day haha
        Why u actually started to count calories at all? For example I’m doing it ONLY when I’m training (at gym & running), usually under short period of the time. Otherwise why to count..just eat normally, that’s all

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      9. I started counting them when I was not eating anything anything…. then I wanted to keep track of what my intake was to try and get it to a healthy level. Ya, I failed at that.

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      10. Cake can’t be an enemy :/ hmmm…
        A piece of cake is the answer to any our problems :)) and cake is happiness! If you have a cake in front of you – you should not look any further for joy! 😂😬✌️

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      11. It is never gone… Now I’ve started to read the second book of Sally Andrew (remember that book about crazy auntie who loved cooking and had a column in the african newspaper “love and food advices” and investigated crime/murder) ..so she, that auntie, went to the psychologist bcz she fell in love with a guy (policeman) but she can’t sleep with him (bcz of her ex, who actually died and was a very bad man), so she’s depressed too, having nightmares, feeling guilty, shame etc etc
        and thats why she eat a lot (ps: actually when Im stressed or depressed Im eating lots too haha ). So psychologist saying to her: tell me about difficult feelings u have and if you noticed what makes your feel better or worse.
        And she saying:
        “when i feel worried or sad or bad – potato salad with cream and mint makes it a lot better. I still feel lonely sometimes, although its a different kind of loneliness from the one i used to have..but anyway. Cake. Chocolate cake helps with any loneliness. And with frustration. Cakes help with lots of problems. And you get so many different flavours…” so the joy is never gone lol you should just choose the right cake for your problem (thats what she said)..

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      12. Haha omg I love that…. “you should just choose the right cake for your problem”! If that could be my life motto all would be good. I would die happy & fat!

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      13. Btw, what’s for dinner? Dont tell me coffee!!!
        I just cooked millet + also salad (from radish, rucola, tomato, avocado, physalis, spinach, sweet peppers, beans, mushrooms, sunflower seeds, sesame seeds, pomegranate, flax-seeds, lemon squeezed, olive oil). Very vegan lol

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      14. 2 months without chocolate. Hm. Never done it. I think even if someone would pay me – I’d say “no, bye” :)) haha
        I mean it’s like the worst horror scenario. Ouch!

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    4. I don’t know…I’m not used to ppl who r “showing love” too much. My mum never did. She never told me she loves me. I’m a bit scared of ppl who r talking a lot about love & wanna hug each other non-stop. Feels awkward lol
      Just a knowing – our parents loves us is enough for me..
      What u think?

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    5. I understand you 🙂 we been taught that a God is a ‘real person’ who kinda watching each our move lol
      I can’t say my family is very religious, nope. I don’t think so…at least I know my mum will never open them => to ppl who knocks on the doors to tell you about Bible. My mum never read Bible in her life. She don’t know what’s that about. Maybe she knows about Adam & Eve. I guess so..
      She’s going to church tho. 2 times a year. It’s a tradition :))
      But I think she still believes in God (when she need it mostly, she’s very pragmatic woman).
      When I was 6 yo i became the orthodox. I remember that. My grandma wanted so.. it was not popular then in Soviet Union.
      Mmm, can’t say my grandma is religious:/ mmmm, but I’ve got a “black saint belt” from her. I have to wear it with me always. It keeps me out of troubles..or helps when I’m inside of it haha
      My beliefs changed with years. I do not see God as a dude. I don’t believe in paradise or hell. I’m not religious. I can pretend to be. I visited many congregations & I been member of diff churches. It’s all same bullshit. Humans want power. That’s where it starts.

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      1. I grew up very religious… church every sunday. even now problems are ‘prayed away’ or they are ‘the will of God’. nothing in between.

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      2. it’s difficult to grew up in very religious families..but hey, you are a rebel at heart lol push a bit that dude from the sky down here :)) & leeeeettttssssss paaarrrtttyyy :)) haha

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