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What is most personal is most universal

I wanted to write a post about “Too many things about myself and my family”, but then I read an article of called “On Truth and Consequences in Blogging”. And I’ve changed my decision. But still I can write about something I like, the way I am and how I see all around me and life. At the end – my pictures, took yesterday. Yes, it IS selfies. Chill…

  • I think people are weird. Yes, you too. I already can see how you are agreeing with me: “Of course I am”, with a happy and a proud smile on your face. Thats okay. Its very ‘trendy’ nowadays – to be weird. Everybody is weird. Everybody wants to be weird. Everybody born to be weird. Everybody is seeking for that – to ‘become weird’. Zero normal people. But let me tell you: I think I am normal. And I am ‘OK’ with that. Or maybe better to say: I am who I am. So next time you are talking to me – keep it in mind.
  • I like or dislike people at the first sight. I’m talking about real life only. About online -doesn’t matter much. I love you all equally, because I do not love you at all. Simple translation: I don’t know you. Read it as you want. Its my position.
    But maybe it is only because: ‘I don’t know half of you half as well as I should like; and I like less than half of you as well as you deserve’.
  • I spent a lot of time staying in the corner, because I never said ‘sorry’. 

Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darkness of other people. C.G. Jung

  • People doesn’t look for the meaning of life, but for the experience of being alive. Think about it…
  • I dont see any dreams when I’m sleeping. I do pray before sleep all my life, I’m not religious. It works like a mantra. Its the same ‘mantra-words’ all these years.
  • Don’t ask me the “question” if you are scared to hear the answer. I’m straight-forward. So I’m that kind of the girl who is after sleeping with you will tell: how big or small you are and what you have to do to move on and how you can find the perfect girl for you…Because we are done kinda. Yes, exactly. Because you are too small. Or too big. So ask yourself – are you ready for The Truth?
  • I do not regret. And I do not look back. Its meaningless. It takes all strength and power inside of you – to think “what if”. And light as well. 
  • My imagination is very ‘strong/seeing’. I do SEE your poems, if it’s well written. If it’s badly written poems (for my taste) – keep writing it, maybe one day I’ll see some light at the end of your tunnel. All I read is an image. That’s why if I’m saying “I’m blushing” = I do. 
  • A lot of ppl think I’m annoying. Ok. I am. I’m happy with my annoying self. And wish you achieve the same kind of ‘nirvana’.
  • I believe you can KNOW the person through his laugh. There’s a saying from Dostoyevsky about it.

If you wish to glimpse inside a human soul and get to know a man, don’t bother analyzing his ways of being silent, of talking, of weeping, of seeing how much he is moved by noble ideas; you will get better results if you just watch him laugh. If he laughs well, he’s a good man.

NOTES: To followers: If I do comment – I really read it and I found it interesting. It doesnt mean I’m starting conversation with all of your buddies. To buddies of my followers: Do not crawl on my comments in the ‘posts of your buddies’. They aren’t for you. To all: So please, keep yourself under control. To myself: Remember, you are just writing here. For fun.


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Living in Sweden. Awesome. Happy. Ayurvedic food. Healthy lifestyle. Dogs. Literature. Painting. Meditation/Yoga. I love my life.
"It does not matter how long you are spending on the earth, how much money you have gathered or how much attention you have received. It is the amount of positive vibration you have radiated in life that matters" A. Ray

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  1. I really enjoyed reading this! Though you are a total stranger, I was refreshed by your straight forward, unflinching tone. I think more people need to be confident and comfortable with themselves just as they are, in the same way you have presented yourself here. Well done!

    I also enjoyed the Tolkien quote 🙂


  2. hehehe love that you send off the take-no-bullshit, and I-am-who-I-am-so-deal-with-it narrative, but then with the adorable photos.
    And I am starting a hyphen war. Because it’s what normal people do (since weird is the new normal, I’ve gotta change up the rules again).

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  3. I’m not sure I understand yet what a “pingback” is, but thank you for it, and thanks also for including me in the continuing conversation.

    I certainly hope I haven’t come across as “crawling on” any of your comments anywhere – it sounds somewhat unseemly! – and I’m glad you’re a straight-forward truth teller. Your writing (thinking?) style is intriguing and, I think, insightful as well. There’s a touch of the absurd, perhaps, but also the profound. I can see why you’re a fan of Bradbury and Dostoyevsky (and Gogol, too, maybe?). I’m interested in learning more about the “experience of being alive,” and I’m curious to see what happens next in the ongoing saga of Luke (who may, or may not, be the reader?). Cheers, and enjoy the semla!

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    • 1. about pingback.. I guess it’s kinda “mention with a link” to the post.
      2. No, you do not belong to the “crawling types” :))
      3. Absurd sounds beautiful…mmmm, remind me about Bernard Shaw 💪❤️
      4. Nikolai Gogol? I Love his plays 😂😬 it’s such a fun to read/watch…
      5. Yeah, Luke will surprise you in the next one lol hopefully:) Luke is the reader of coz. But he’s the part of me too, he’s silly and kind. I’m always saying – Luke is you. Because it is prototype of any male.
      Enjoy ur weekends 👋

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  4. I’m with you on the don’t ask me a question if you don’t want the answer. I am not an intentionally try to hurt your feelings, type of person. But people ask me questions, I answer them and they don’t like the answer, that I was mean, etc. Not trying to be mean, I’m honest 🙂 And whatever that pastry is, I want one.(guess it’s a pastry, looks like a variation of tiramisu)

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    • Having a bit of ‘trouble’ with a part of todays post! I’ll have ‘trouble’ with the other parts later!
      My trouble began yesterday when reading a post by someone mentioned today. Trouble =’d a discussion regarding a specific “Color”. I discontinued reading, because, it began to be ‘disrespectful’ in my humble opinion! (the fur on the back of my neck became raised)
      I am asking myself, should I feel ‘protective’ or let it go “like water off a duck’s back”


    • Thank you!
      All of your picture were nice! That being said, you do realize the ‘Pups’ kind of steal the show! (except for the item in my next question)
      What is the name, and a brief description of the ‘pastry like creation’ pictured??
      On the way to the ‘bakery’ for raspberry scones!
      Last but not least, do have a good Saturday, what’s left of it anyway!
      🙂 🙂


    • Haha 😂 of coz the pups r always the cutest ❤️🙃 mmm, pastry – called SEMLA & here in Sweden ppl r eating it only in February lol I already got back from 😂 enjoy ur day/weekend

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    • 🙂 🙂 Please, one more question. Then I will vanish I a cloud of ‘chocolate’ dust.

      The picture/ art to the left on your page, would you tell me (us) what it signifies??

      (p o o f) chocolate dust carries him away…………………………………………………………

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    • Mmm, any my post or any picture I post – is always ME. I have to see “MYSELF” inside of it/in it..-otherwise I’ll never post it or never write it down. That’s HOW I am. So…I don’t know, I liked it, I saw myself in that image of the girl. Ciaaaooo, dust!!! :))

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  5. JRRRaynotbradburrynottolkien, that was a beautiful post. Hard and straightforward. But still beautiful. I don’t like people mostly. But I equally don’t like and love myself so I suppose I project the same image to all around me. I enjoyed the Bilbo’s quote (is your birthday near btw?), since I’m the person that I will talk to you only if I want to talk to you and get to know you. But that in real life.
    On the other hand i always think that people act in a certain way because there’s always a reason, so I’m currently trying to figure out what caused your post.
    Hope it was a good thing and you feel better after writing. If it was a bad thing and you feel better, then good for you.
    Cheers either way.

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    • U know JR Tolkien well hahaha :)) Cheers ✌️ no it’s all fine. I’m straightforward. If the post sounds abit ‘rampant’ – mmmm, def some part of me or maybe a new writing style? :)) 😂 and probably the post was born bcz yesterday on Mindfump-post his buddies were stalking my comments & even answered my questions (I didn’t ask them) and talked behind my back “how entertaining she is” = me. Also some other his buddies went thru all my comments to like them. Hm. Now they are welcome to read my post and also welcome to ‘the future’ of getting zero my comments on their next posts. That’s all. And for u: I think it’s a good way to be -> to love yourself + to be your own critic (not tooooo much 😂😂). My birthday is in June. I’ll be 39. And have a good day ahead and weekends:) I’m 👌 OK 🙂 alwayyyyssss haha

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    • It did “sound” rampart but for some reason it “felt” right.
      June 4 here, 41. Currently at a cafe, writing and “studying” people around me.
      I don’t think you’re quit, unless you choose to be.


  6. So I see a beautiful post by a beautiful soul. And really enjoyed each line as I read it twice and maybe thrice and then come back again to read again. No way I am scrolling here to find something wrong or right because I simply see in all a beautiful sweet person because on this path of life journey I see all as souls and all as same energy.
    Yes people are weird because each one is a masterpiece and thus different. And yes as everyone you are normal as I 😂.
    Liking disliking is your perception thus no comment on it. 😂 funny you love and don’t love at sane time, wow kind of quality.
    Finding self and knowing within is the start of live journey and we are here just for that. The moment we know our flaws we make improvements so yes proud of you. Truly from heart.
    Well not looking to live life is a pity because life is such a sweet mystery and many miss it.
    It is all good if someone is not religious because the outside world has been teaching religion the wrong way. Indeed they teach religion for their growth not human growth.
    And it’s amazing and beautiful thing you don’t dream. Why to trouble the sweet mind even at night. 😊

    Wow a special kind you are and it is most beautiful thing to be able to be blunt and Frank and say at mouth what the feelings are. Interesting and captivating. Good🌹

    No point in staying in the past because we cannot change it and no point to think about tomorrow because it is life which will play its part, so proud again as you are rare one who stays in the present.
    😂 haha loved that nirvana part. Just too wonderful and sweet you are. Sarcastic maybe some feel but I really am like rising up in love with your attitude.

    Well finally once again agree… With the laughter.

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  7. … sometimes I love my annoying self too and not afraid being comfortable with my dark side – it kinda brings out a very special kind of creativity… P.S. those dogs are adorable!

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